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Ever thought that, even some problems can be good to have in a relationship. Well yes, it can be so! When two people are together, it’s not just the love and happiness that tends to strengthen their bond further, but there are some problems as well, that can help largely in growth of your relationship. Let us have a look over the five problems. 1. Grand Fights Followed By Isolation:
If it often happens that you land up in grand fights followed by separation for a few days, then it’s a sign of a potentially healthy relationship. Because here, what matter is, the fact that even after frequent fights and isolation for days, you fall back together and end up being together. This strengthens your bond further and you realize each other’s importance. It kind of inculcates a sense of togetherness in a couple and make them even more confident about the stability of their relationship. Also, when you are separated from your partner, you tend to deeply analyze and realize the facts behind the reasons that ignited the fight, which leads to self realization by both the partners. 2. Disagreeable Families:
Well, again this might sound weird to you, but it does make sense! How? Well, families that disagree to their child marrying a partner of their choice are acting as a hurdle in a couple’s way to togetherness. And nothing is more satisfactory than a victory that is hard earned. More the hurdles, more the keenness, willingness and excitement to overcome them, and more the excitement, more is the pleasure and value of the victory. If things are going to be straight and easy, there will hardly be anything memorable about it. And moreover, things are going to work anyway for you. You are still going to marry despite the family resistance(if you truly love your partner). So, there’s no way a loss to you, but an added peppy fun caused due to family resistance. 3. Sickness to One of the Partner:
Sickness is surely not welcomed by anyone. But as long as there’s a loving couple who are living together, sickness is only going to gain them something. When one of the partners fall sick, the other tends to do every possible thing for him/her. This communicates a sense of togetherness and a feeling of belongingness among them. You tend to care for your sick partner and pray for his/her well being. You miss the usual him/her who is full of life otherwise. All these feelings tends to bring both of you closer to each other. 4. Unplanned Pregnancy:
You might not be ready for a positive result of the pregnancy test and may even go furious about it. But once you are over the initial reaction towards the not-so-bad news, you realize what it is all about! Sometimes you tend to overestimate the consequences of a particular situation. Such is the case with pregnancy. Due to various reasons, people tend to believe that an unplanned baby might just ruin their plans and their well organized system, whereas actually, it rather helps in making things better. An unplanned baby might just prove to be a boon in certain relationships, hence making the bond even stronger and deeper. 5. Possessiveness:
Although people say that being possessive is like being sick and being insecured, but this is not the case every time with everyone. Sometimes being possessive, caring and interfering with your partner is like owing yourself to him/her and owing him/her to yourself completely. When in todays world, it’s hard to find an indulgent partner or a partner who is there for you all the time, looking after you, caring for you and worry over you, getting one is no way a problem but a blessing! All that you need to do is to look at it with a different perspective and admire what the other person feels about you and is doing for you! Although the above problems might annoy some of the people, but most of the times it’s our perspective that leads us to think that way. All that we need to do then is to change our perspective and look at things, differently! |
